RE: Friend deleted me after 2 years because i'm atheist
October 17, 2015 at 5:49 pm
(This post was last modified: October 17, 2015 at 5:51 pm by Heat.)
(October 17, 2015 at 4:56 pm)jenny1972 Wrote:That was the first time I ever did that, every other time when I didn't agree with him he would curse me out, go offline on all communications, anytime someone told him he was wrong or disagreed with him he would throw a temper tantrum. I always gave him the benefit of the doubt, I would agree with him just so he would shut up and stop taking our arguments so seriously. He couldn't handle being wrong. I didn't care if I was wrong. The difference between the scenario you're describing and mine is that I would have liked to have been wrong, but he would never give me any reason(and i mean any reason not just whats up to my standards) for what he believed, yet he would valiantly argue about it until I either agreed or he got so mad that I wouldn't agree and would just quit.(October 17, 2015 at 4:36 pm)heatiosrs Wrote: You clearly don't know the situation.
your the one who said you were writing him long essay length letters explaining in detail how he was wrong , and how upset you get because he doesnt agree with you and doesnt concede to your opinions which are right . admit it you want him to become an atheist and lack tolerance for his beliefs .
If i expected my friends to agree with me all the time, and needed that for some reason, the friendship would have ended there, because he never agreed with me on anything, I would love if he could prove me wrong, but he never put any time in to his arguments he just cursed and said he was right because he was right.
I want him to become atheist because I lack tolerance for his beliefs? Alright you're not worth responding to anymore because you're either trolling or just brain-dead stupid. I never brought my religion in to the conversation for two years, and when I did i said specifically "Im telling you this because I dont think its something that should affect our relationship negatively in any way, or is imporant, im telling you this because I trust you and want you to understand my world view because of my stance on the subject". Really?
Even in my long and very angry response to him I didn't attack his religion, or mention it, which I very easily could of. Don't talk to me again. It makes me angry that you would even say my atheism made me not accept his religion, and somehow i'm the one to blame. Like shut the fuck up honestly you have no idea what you are talking about. Unbelievable. Frankly you should be the poster child for all religious misconceptions. Turning a situation that is clearly about something else into an atheist being intolerant for someone's religion. Get the fuck off this forum, because you just exposed your preconceived notions about atheists, so why are you here if all you think is that atheists are intolerant and non accepting of religious beliefs. You're going to tell me how defensive I just got and how that's probably how I was with my friend or something, and this is proof I have to be right. Go ahead, you fail to realize that you are not my friend, and I would never argue with such hostility toward my friend. Even when making ridiculous claims.