Ah... wouldn't it be nice if girls were that... ahem... open... ahem... minded.
But they're not.
I blame Disney.
Now seriously, somehow kids grow up thinking they're entitled to certain things - it's the everyone is special attitude, the no kid gets left behind, the every kid is smart, and funny, and witty, and clever, and cute, and intelligent, and everything.
Statistically, they're not half those things. Live with it.
Parents want their kids to feel good, but as they raise them to feel good about any stupid little thing and never curb less desired behaviors, they then grow to think they deserve things and will take any course of action to get those things.... This is why we have rapes, gangs and this sort of shootings.
The pedo-psychology of the 20th~21th centuries.
I'm not saying that all parents do this... but some do it... enough for some kids to rise up and do those despicable acts.
The problem lies in parents that don't introduce their kids to the harsh realities of life. I call that bad parenting, but it's also understandable parenting. Which parent doesn't want the best for their kids?
If you want to change something, it's not the girls, not the kids.... it's the parents.
How to change that?... I don't know... mandatory *free* child-psychology classes? Some counseling as to how to raise a balanced human being?...
But they're not.
I blame Disney.
Now seriously, somehow kids grow up thinking they're entitled to certain things - it's the everyone is special attitude, the no kid gets left behind, the every kid is smart, and funny, and witty, and clever, and cute, and intelligent, and everything.
Statistically, they're not half those things. Live with it.
Parents want their kids to feel good, but as they raise them to feel good about any stupid little thing and never curb less desired behaviors, they then grow to think they deserve things and will take any course of action to get those things.... This is why we have rapes, gangs and this sort of shootings.
The pedo-psychology of the 20th~21th centuries.
I'm not saying that all parents do this... but some do it... enough for some kids to rise up and do those despicable acts.
The problem lies in parents that don't introduce their kids to the harsh realities of life. I call that bad parenting, but it's also understandable parenting. Which parent doesn't want the best for their kids?
If you want to change something, it's not the girls, not the kids.... it's the parents.
How to change that?... I don't know... mandatory *free* child-psychology classes? Some counseling as to how to raise a balanced human being?...
