I think the congratulations should've been a sufficient acknowledgment of her support and renewed trust in you (in this particular matter). Maybe the congratulations was her way of making amends and saying sorry. If you got upset, she may have viewed that as you insisting that she apologize for not trusting you on this matter, when she had a pretty good reason not to...by your own admission.
On the other hand, if you're not dependent or prone to alcohol-induced rage (or similar negativity), maybe it's just not reasonable to expect you abstain from drinking alcohol altogether. In that case, it's possible that you may be harboring resentment for being asked to change and give up something you enjoy...all while kind of being monitored.
On the other hand, if you're not dependent or prone to alcohol-induced rage (or similar negativity), maybe it's just not reasonable to expect you abstain from drinking alcohol altogether. In that case, it's possible that you may be harboring resentment for being asked to change and give up something you enjoy...all while kind of being monitored.


