(December 8, 2015 at 1:16 pm)pocaracas Wrote: Why does it matter who's right and who's wrong?
Each is right in their own eyes.
Thanks for your opinion, first off -- lot of insight in there, and it's much appreciated.
I'm the sort of guy who will ask if I'm being wrong about something. In this particular matter, our positions seem pretty intractable, and efforts at resolution run aground on each our convictions of rightness. I wanted to phrase it as a poll so I could get a quick glimpse of opinion, and also wanted well-thought answers -- and I've certainly gotten that. But collecting those opinions would have invoked "right" and "wrong" immediately.
Why does that matter? Because if I'm wrong in my behavior, I need to change it; and if I'm right, I need to stand up for myself. And the same can be said of her.
Thanks again for you answer, Poca.