RE: Guys: Would you ever rape and murder a girl?
December 17, 2015 at 6:06 pm
(This post was last modified: December 17, 2015 at 6:10 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(December 17, 2015 at 5:59 pm)Brian37 Wrote:(December 17, 2015 at 5:36 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: You both (especially Brian) are acting as though I somehow downplayed or denied rape just because I was surprised to know men can get erections during it. Seriously, that's all it was - I was merely surprised to learn this could happen to men. I never said it isn't rape if he's aroused. I never said inserting objects into people's butts against their will isn't rape.
I must say this is the most bizarre case of strawmanning I've ever seen not coming from a troll lol.
No, not at all. We just don't think you or most laypeople understand the biological actions during an act of rape and molestation which is why you were "surprised" that it could happen to men. We just told you and now you know. So again, instead of fighting us trying to claim we put words in your head when all we did was state reality, accept it and learn. Nobody is accusing you of anything.
I don't think you understand. I was "surprised" men could get erections during rape to the point where they could be raped vaginally.
My cousin, who is a guy, was raped by a male neighbor when he was 11. And I'm not a "moron" as you called it. I know what rape/molestation is and what it entails. I just didn't realize it was possible for men to get erections during it.
I was just surprised arousal could happen. That's all I was surprised about lol.
EDIT TO ADD: I also don't get why being a lay person should have anything to do with whether or not a person understands what rape is.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh