Homosexuality

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It seems to me that it's more than just being attracted to a certain gender. It's about feeling a kind of very special close bond. In my experience at least, they go hand in hand. I'm not attracted to men, nor could I have the same sort of loving relationship I can have with a woman. I can be great friends with men, but there's a line that somehow can't be crossed. I can't logically explain it as to why that should be; it just is. To me, this bond is most important in a relationship.

I would imagine it's the same being gay. In the end, I think it's the close bond that people crave more than the sexual part, and probably why pretend relationships are so often doomed. But generally, as I say, they go together anyway.

Am I getting it right?