(February 13, 2016 at 12:29 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote:(February 13, 2016 at 10:22 am)Mermaid Wrote: You are right. I should have rephrased my statement: I am pretty sick of women being berated for being overweight and judged for their body condition. She recovered from an often fatal eating disorder, FFS. I phrased things the way I did because the OP is presumably a man.
Better? What part of this is random? This whole thread is filled with comments about whether her body is healthy or not. Weight is somehow a moral issue. How did that happen? People are fucking judgmental.
It's not about her health, it's about her attractiveness. Come on, at least admit that.
Why can't it be about both? Why wouldn't I admit it's about attractiveness as well? I said as much up until now. But as I later added, I don't weight is what makes her unattractive to me, rather her apparently simplistic mind.
I think the objection with it being about both is that no one really believes any of you care about some random stranger's health. No one believes you really take moral objection to someone being of bad health either.
So they want you to be honest and say "eww you're fat and it's gross"
That's just what I think the objection is, and of course it's a general you not you specifically.
