(April 29, 2016 at 3:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: It's not where you live but how and why you live. If the person is an unnecessary burden (at the age of maturity) to their parents/the community/society and they behave as if that is not a problem, that the world owes them something for being born, I'm going to take issue with that. If the person takes with no give there is a problem.
The world owes itself more stability. If an individual is not draining their spouse, or their child or their family member and it is consensual, it is nobody's business. And what do you mean by "give"? You think earning a paycheck is the only way to give? If that is the case then every stay at home wife should be forced to get a job.
This isn't about the world owing individuals anything. This is about society owning itself more stability. Nobody is saying everyone be poor and everyone quit their jobs. You do what works for you, but what works for one is not a script for all.