Why the religious will never admit you won the argument (and why they don't care)

[Veritas_Vincit]

The dictionary definition does not necessarily match to any one individual's concept of God, and most people's definition is unique in some way, so it is necessarily to define terms with each individual. It is for the individual who is making the claim that a God exists to define what they mean by the word, and then demonstrate that it in fact does exist.

As for Kalam, take a look at this: https://youtu.be/1u9ZIQ33a8c

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Or to be more exhaustive:
http://wiki.ironchariots.org/index.php?title=Kalam