One thing I don't get--even when I was a believer, I near really heard God speak to me. I mean I never even thought he did. Yet I hear Christians say this all the time. I'm guessing that it's whatever their instincts is telling them to do, and they assume it's God (when it works) or the devil (when it doesn't).
The whole tone of Church teaching in regard to woman is, to the last degree, contemptuous and degrading. - Elizabeth Cady Stanton