(October 10, 2016 at 8:12 am)Whateverist Wrote: To declare that "no, she knew, she's a pathological liar" - that is a slur and I don't appreciate you slurring her.
Well, it's a good fucking thing I didn't say that, now isn't it? If you want to take offense over an imagined opinion, that's your business. Have at it.
(October 10, 2016 at 8:12 am)Whateverist Wrote: I don't think Aurora suggesting that there may be some unresolved internal conflict in you regarding women seeking power is any kind of slur. It is a very natural thing to consider when trying to understand one another.
I take it as a slur, because it implies that either I'm sexist, or I'm so dumb that after fifty years I still don't know basic things about myself. If you want to speculate on her motives, go ahead, don't let me stop you. But I won't take being called sexist -- and that, in essence, is what she did -- without defending myself, and if you want to jump into the fray, you'd goddamned well better have something better than sticking words in my mouth that I didn't say, Whatevs.