How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?

[Drich]

Here's a thought...

IF it takes a woman or man waits 5 years to report a rape... it wasn't.

Here's a thought...

You have no fucking clue about the psychological effects of abuse.

But hey, keep talking.  There might be a few people here that have yet to be convinced you're an uncaring monster.

while the later is true (the moster bit) I am well aware of abuse and how it can be used to control people. I also know how to work myself from it. allowing someone to pity themselves and wallow in their 'instance' of it, creates victims. If a 'victim' ever wants control of their life back, they must learn to focus and channel themselves into being something other than a victim.. Anger can work for a while but ultimately leads back down to the path of victim hood once one burns themselves out.

If anyone wants to reclaim themselves then they need to learn to identify themselves apart from what happened. This starts by what I did by asking questions concerning this a-hole's other victims and how her in actions could have realistically gotten some other girl raped. This takes the sigma off the victim and obliges them to act... But if the goal here is to be a victim, and to self center and shut down, then this effort will be met by resistance...

Unfortunatly the popular culture prizes it's victims, and when some people rightfully obtain victim hood they seek to go no further. If you find a person like this, then the best thing is to pay them their due and move on to try and help someone who wants it.