How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?

[Drich]

If it happened then follow the procedure and report it in the alotted 5 year time span in the state of NY.


Why were you only raped once?

If dude knew you were scarred into silence why did he never return?

If he returned why didn't that force you to act/report it?

actually it is. occasionally you get a snow flake as you claim to be, but it is far more likely that some nut job 1/2 way want to have sex or thought they would get more out of it (cosby) but got left holding the bag/walk of shame one night stand, then decide they can cash in later because again while you can prove the act you can not prove intent. Which again is where time comes in. Given enough of it (say 5 years) if it is not reported by the consent either pre, during, or after the act (by your own inaction) is given.

In action in the face of evil is the same as permission.

Did you never ask yourself what about the next girl? Or what if the last girl had said something... would you have been raped?

You are the lowest form of low.

why because I approach you without pity and a ounce of discernment? That I have the audacity to dare look at the situation rather than the individual? Is this not a discussion? If one of your buddies gives you a cookie cutter answer, do you really need everyone to pat you on the bottom and tell you everything is going to be ok? Have you shut yourself down to looking at anything anyone has to say that is not nurturing???

This is what happens when a nation grows up without Fathers. Use to be a balance was struck with a child between the nurture a mother gave, and the walk it off/let's do the next logical thing a true father gave.

Now if we are not 100% nurture all you can see is a monster.

Look as I said. If you want to be a victim the rest of your life then simply continue down the path your on. Seek consul only from those who pity you and offer condolences. Don't ever seek to move past what happen only seek to forget it till someone mentions the word rape in a way you don't want to hear it and then force yourself to relive it.

See to me, someone who has endured and work with people who had much much worse happen to them over a much longer period of time. Those of you who force people to only be victims are the true monsters. Because it is possible to detach from an incident like this and not have it define who you are. It can become just another event in your life. adding to your character not controlling it.

But hey what do I know.. just continue to do the easy what 'feels' or seems right/less pain avenue...