How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?

[Drich]

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then please define the two..

I'm sorry..is something wrong with your Google? Stop being complacent and go make an effort.

I see decency as something that will ultimately free a person from a chain or shackle/something like this from which the bind themselves. even if like medcine it taste bad up front.

Your depth of perception is what I was asking for not the societal standard. because as I see it if you insist on using those words you must have redefined them to make them work... Or you are so near sighted that you have abandoned any long term effect.

Who are you to presume that Nymph is still in shackles over the event.

I did not assume anything. I labeled her having to relive the event and needing a day or two and not even being able to play 'mafia' as being shackled.. But your right I could be wrong, she could just be trying to use this event to manipulate emotion and support.. I wouldn't personally think someone would do this, but maybe you have deeper incite than I do.

Because she got angry at your VINDICTIVE response, which you clearly made in an effort to ridicule her? So what? 

Anger is not the issue. Anger can be a cleansing agent. if your goal is to not be angry.

That doesn't mean that she's as emotionally scarred by it, as when it first happened. Maybe that just means you're an asshole, asshole.

And, you have no clue as to the lengths people here are willing to go to help fellow board members. Are you privy to all of the PMs and outside correspondence and interactions board member's have with each other? No? 

You are right, but at the same time I am well aware of the the quality of effort being offered if these post are any indication of what is being offered in a PM. Which again is not the point or issue. If one wants more of the same to help them cope.. then what ever it takes.. I again am simply offering an alternative.

How arrogant are you to assume that everyone wants or needs what you or the consensus of this board is offering in the way of support.

Then, stfu. Your know-nothingness is showing.

Besides, are you offering something in the way of help, besides peddling your religious yabba-dabba, and generally flapping your gums? What is it?
Why is it so remarkable?

I've already outline the first step several times is in helping the abused reclaim power and even helping redirect some of the humiliation and shame into a form of honor and duty, in an effort to recapture some of the dignity that was lost.

Then we all must learn to properly grieve the loss, with out letting it consume us. As their is a part that has died, but in the vein of letting the dead bury the dead we can not remain/sacrifice the rest of the being die with the relatively small part that was taken away. When we offer platitudes and condolences when a story like this is offered, if the person is not in any type of recovery it offers them fuel to remain in this grieving process. I am assuming this happened years (more than 5) if not decades ago. I pushed to see if anyone needed help. someone does. You all want to throw logs of "support/pity" on this fire of grief that has not been extinguished. And again I can say that because of her retreat. which would indicate that she has never moved past any of this.

The rest does indeed center around alot of yabba dabba so I'll let the rest go at that.

DON'T use your personal transformation as a testament to the efficacy of your "approach"; because you're a motherfucker.

So your saying it is better for a victim to suffer daily even contemplate suicide if that person, can not recover in a way that allows you a third party no body to feel good about how you approach a rape victim?

If not then why is any method of successful recovery being taken off the table?

How self righteous and petty is that? that you would deny access to something that you a bystander who has no part in any of the suffering and shame, gets to dictate what can be offered and what can't be offered because you a 3rd party is made to feel bad about their 1/2 ass approach?