How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?

[Drich]

No, no.  Let's not try to wiggle away from your nasty assertion here.  You could have come into the discussion advocating for one of two general positions:

"Sexual assault victims should either -

1. Come forward and report their assault as soon as possible, even in the face of understandable fear, pain, and shame.  It may be difficult, but it's the best thing for their healing process, and it increases the likelihood that the rapist will be prevented from committing more crimes.

OR

2. Victims should do whatever they feel is best for their healing, even if that means keeping their trauma to themselves, and never coming forward."

That would be a perfectly fine topic of discussion, and you could provide evidence for which ever stance you take on the issue.  But no.  That's NOT what you did, is it?  You barged in and said:

"If you didn't report your rape, then you're lying!"

You single-handedly invalidated the assaults of hundreds of thousands of victims all over the country, including the assault of a member on this forum who has bravely opened up about her trauma.  You called Nymph a liar, and then you acted baffled as to why she got upset with you.  THEN you deflected her anger back onto HER, accusing her of playing the victim-role, instead of taking responsibility for your words.

@Drich, this one ^

Whoa... where did I say any of that?

Or is that all that you can see?

I need a citation a literal untouched quote, and a post number most of my first thoughts were from page 3 forward.

Show me where I called anyone a liar or said any of the things you claimed i said or simply admit you are having to change the narritive inorder for your straw man witch hunt to work.

Can't you see if you have to change my words to make me seem evil enough to direct the hate you have in your heart towards me, that your actions in changing my narrative is the only true evil being perpetrated? you are literally bearing false witness inorder to justify your witch hunt. What happenes when I smack you back with the truth? are you then going to try and rejustify your hate with the mental gymnastics you used to change what I actually said to what you wish I had said? Sorry Mr. Clinton I am not one of the brain washed idiots who must rely on your interpretation of truth and fact inorder to discern what is and is not happening. I know what I said and why I said it. Your "quoting skills" would have been counter productive to my larger point.

I am not like you. I don't speak from emotion. I speak from a foundation and build on it, sparking debate and discussion along the way giving people an opportunity to THINK outside of their boxes. What this does not allow me to do is just to speak randomly. Everything is carfully worded inorder to challenge what you all take for granted. That is how I know you lied and misquoted me. Because again one you can not find what you said i said anywhere, and two it is counter productive to my whole interaction to this thread.

Now imagine what would happen if I admit to being apart of this thread 5 years down the line, but there were no way to prove what i did say and didn't say... And all we have to go one was someone who was mad at me and all we had was your recollection to go off of and my own word...
Here and now you 'feel' if you are on the side of right and morality even though I can show you had to literally lie/misquote me to come to your position of self righteousness.

What happens 5 10 years down the road in the case of a mishandled sexual relationship with one partner feels as you do and there is no proof?