RE: How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?
October 17, 2016 at 4:12 pm
(This post was last modified: October 17, 2016 at 4:13 pm by Kingpin.)
(October 17, 2016 at 4:05 pm)Drich Wrote:(October 17, 2016 at 1:06 pm)Vic Wrote: This is what you call empathy. It's a basic human skill that allows for societies to function. It would be pity if it involved a low opinion of the person you're being empathetic towards.
actually no.. Pity and compassion are synonymous.
The two words are literally used to define each other.
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pit·y
ˈpidē/
noun
noun: pity
1.
the feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the suffering and misfortunes of others.
com·pas·sion
kəmˈpaSHən/
noun
noun: compassion; plural noun: compassions
sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others.
You guys are arrogant if you think I don't know the meaning of the words. I simply asked CL to define those words as I do not understand her use of compassion so removed from the act. She wasn't responsible for it in any way shape or form nor did her words as far as I could determine show anything but pity.. So then inlight of what we (Cl and I) were discussion I was asking if there was some other reason besides and exhibition of pity did she intend when she offer her words... Then I asked why?
Why? because I see that as an offensive act. In other cultures say Korean, pitying someone in a similar situation could be construed as an offensive act. So I was wondering if she even knew why she said what she said or was it just a cultural reaction.
I would disagree that they are synonymous. To have pity is to feel sorrow, but to have compassion is to be moved to do something about it. When I walk by a homeless person and think "man, that poor guy" but I keep walking and go about my day, I pity that man. If I stop and give him money or offer him food, I'm showing compassion out of my pity. They are similar but compassion goes a step further.
The key word in your definitions that you are overlooking is the word "concern". If I pity someone, I'm not concerned. If I'm compassionate, I have a concern for their well being.
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