RE: How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?
October 18, 2016 at 3:48 pm
(October 18, 2016 at 3:38 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote:(October 18, 2016 at 3:36 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: When he says forced he merely means rough bdsm roleplay type sex that is consensual.
I don't care what words he uses, quite honestly. If he agrees that sex which is not consensual is rape, then I don't care how he uses the word "forced.
But nowhere in this thread has he indicated that he's talking about bdsm roleplay or fantasy. At all.
If he spend dozens of pages trying to get that point across, and all he has to say is that he's talking about it in a fetish/fantasy setting, then yes, I would agree, I love the freaky fetish stuff as much as the next person.
Literally all he has to do is say that simple statement. So he's either the single worst communicator that I have ever seen, or he's not talking about bdsm fantasy.
He's referring to cultures in which women are supposed to "act" like they don't want to have sex. I don't care if he defines it as bdsm or roleplay or what. Bottom line is he is referring to sex that IS consensual. However it was he twisted words to get there, I don't care.
And like I said, I think he may like to stir up drama. That could be another reason why he's refraining from better explaining his position in a way that would make us go "Ohhh, ok then. Yeah, I agree with that."
That's why I think we need to leave it alone.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
