Why Lust is bad, not gonna use "sin" reason but logical reason

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Sure, some people use sexual urges to trick people. Why does that make lust, in general, bad? Life isn't black and white; it's not either/or.

You have to still use your head and not just think with your genitals.

I lust after huge numbers of women. I enjoy the feeling. It never leads me to "do" anything, because I'm married.

So sure, just like all our urges, we need to be on the lookout for when it may end up harming us. But trying to deny or suppress our natural thoughts can also be very harmful.