(February 22, 2017 at 11:24 am)Godschild Wrote: I read your above post and you have a lot you will miss about her, those are the memories to hold onto, those are the real times the unforgettable ones that will bring happiness to your life after she is gone. Hold tightly to those jewels they will get you through the difficult days ahead. Those are the memories that defined the good parts and the ones that will sustain you in the future. As everyone has been saying cherish this time make it count it is the time you will remember most often.
Continue to grow closer it will make you closer after she is gone and remember you still have a future she desires you to live. I'm sorry you are having to go through this but, we are never guaranteed how our lives will go and I'm sorry that the end for her is going to be harder than any of us want. Since I feel you would not appreciate Christian statements I want offer them. If you have questions you can PM me and I will respond.
Hoping the best that can be for the both of you.
GC
I am not about to PM any theist for anything never have never will. Your intent is not my issue, but especially now, regardless of your intent or any other theist i really don't want to hear it. All 7 billion of us are the same species and everyone goes through this. Just leave it at "I am sorry and I wish you the best", that is now, not just me, but other atheists would prefer you deal with us in times like this.
I am posting this right now in a very calm moment because my mom has been more lucid this morning and able to smile for now. THAT is comforting to me. Knowing i will always have her in my thoughts is comforting to me. Knowing that eventually she will not be in any more pain is comforting to me. I have to bite my tongue enough in person I have no desire to have PMs with theists.