I am an atheist that despises atheists

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To the OP.

Can you please define for me what "sexual normalcy" is?

Over the centuries, and longer, we've had people attracted to the same sex, to children, to the elderly, to corpses, to themselves, to animals, and to inanimate objects.  Hell, in multiple states in the US bestiality is perfectly legal but there are many conservatives in those states who are against marriage equality.

There is also some evidence that same sex attraction serves an evolutionary niche.  If it wasn't natural it wouldn't occur in nature.  But it does.

I thinks more about thinking about a healthy sexual society.  We can operate under "normal conditions" with many sexual fetishes that have less negative impacts than alcohol does.  But thinking that its "normal" or "natural" for sexual abuse and degrading sexual habits is as bad as pushing prudish habits only.

I agree about gay marriages.  I don't look at evolution, but if we Look at the number of 'regular marriages" that fail.  To point to a gay marriage and claim "that's evil but our failing way is "righteous" seems very silly to me too.