(June 8, 2017 at 2:41 pm)c172 Wrote:(June 8, 2017 at 2:21 pm)JamieB Wrote: One of my favorite movies is "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black and Jason Alexander.
Jack plays a superficial playboy that when Tony Robins puts a spell on him so he can only see inner beauty. The sexy woman he once was attracted to become hideous and visa versa.
People can be so fucking beautiful from afar, but soon after observing them as a person become unattractive. I have never been attracted to asian men, but if I met one that was a beautiful person I know my views would change. Is sexual attraction something that can change with personality or do you just want to fuck hot chicks and dicks?
When I'm just looking at images on the web, I inject them with what I deem to be a likable personality. I guess personality is important to me, so it's better to have a good personality than a bad one, or even none at all. But, even at 41, I feel like I have adolescent hormones, so outer beauty is (in my mind and case, a bit too) important.
I agree. Its so fucking funny what just happened and I think this will really help or hurt your fantasies. I was googling porn star to make a funny joke, and one of my former clients showed up first. Dylan Rider was her stage name. When I first met her she was showing me pics of her hair, but may had boobie shots. She explained to me a lot about the porn industry. She Looked average in person, but her photos were gorgeous. She was a corrections officer at a woman prison when her friend in the porn industry brought her in. She has a son, and was in crazy custody battle with her ex. Being a porn star doesn't paint the perfect Moma pic. She was moving to Utah last I saw her to start either a children's party business or start a career in colonics. She was nice, but superficial and her choice to marry her biggest fan was an odd one.
Did that ruin fantasy?
I was a born-again christian for many years then I got woke.. and now life is better in so many ways. It's taking me time to see my value and find my voice, but the reward is liberating knowing my path is not dictated or controlled by fear of death and the unknown. Casting off the shackles of religion is pretty fucking awesome. The beautiful people I've met on this forum have more heart and compassion than any group of people I've been apart of. So back off Jesus and followers, because this bitch is done with Chu. 
