(July 18, 2017 at 5:58 pm)Khemikal Wrote: More along the lines of..personally, finding my extension of kindness to be arbitrary or capricious. I;ve been taken advantage of in kindness, but I'm not a nice person or a high road person..so it;s usually a mistake that a person makes once and never again.
That's a good way to put it; it's how I deal with strangers. As opposed to the loved ones I mentioned earlier, strangers get much less leeway to fuck with me. I don't mind getting burnt, but I don't forget when it's our first dealing together and accompanied by it.