It's a false dichotomy. It is not one or the other. Nothing incoherent about both being true.
When you cite specific religions beliefs, it could be that those specific beliefs are wrong. To apply specific beliefs to the whole concept of religion and then to say it is incompatible is a fallacy of composition.
When you cite specific religions beliefs, it could be that those specific beliefs are wrong. To apply specific beliefs to the whole concept of religion and then to say it is incompatible is a fallacy of composition.