Validate the want of your dad; and ignore it if it's wrong.
I learned that as I grew up; actually I even experienced wrong parental advice.
At the end; the suffering is yours, and the pain is yours. Talk is cheap, even if a mother or a father gave with ultimate care. My mother gave me an advice to study "Business" in college; I ignored her advice and went for Computer Science. Never was I happier for my choice later on.
With all respect and love to my mother.
Marriage is even more dangerous than majors and future career, imagine marrying the wrong pick and having children with him. Your kids will suffer a lot, not just the kids; even you later on.
You can ignore what they say. But seek the choice you know you won't regret, the one person you are sure about. You'll know.
You owe it to yourself.
I always tell others what I keep telling myself: when you sleep at night; you are left with the consequences of your actions. Your parents will not feel what you feel; you might be precious to them, but not as precious as you are to yourself.
As for orgasms and sex; it's fine. Some of us are so late, and they will begin very late in life; so believe me, it should be one of the last things you think about. For now; focus on what makes you happy and what would make a kid pray at night while smiling: "Thanks God for this family!"
I learned that as I grew up; actually I even experienced wrong parental advice.
At the end; the suffering is yours, and the pain is yours. Talk is cheap, even if a mother or a father gave with ultimate care. My mother gave me an advice to study "Business" in college; I ignored her advice and went for Computer Science. Never was I happier for my choice later on.
With all respect and love to my mother.
Marriage is even more dangerous than majors and future career, imagine marrying the wrong pick and having children with him. Your kids will suffer a lot, not just the kids; even you later on.
You can ignore what they say. But seek the choice you know you won't regret, the one person you are sure about. You'll know.
You owe it to yourself.
I always tell others what I keep telling myself: when you sleep at night; you are left with the consequences of your actions. Your parents will not feel what you feel; you might be precious to them, but not as precious as you are to yourself.
As for orgasms and sex; it's fine. Some of us are so late, and they will begin very late in life; so believe me, it should be one of the last things you think about. For now; focus on what makes you happy and what would make a kid pray at night while smiling: "Thanks God for this family!"
