(September 19, 2017 at 8:59 am)Die Atheistin Wrote:
Quote:I felt sexual attraction on some occasions (just to be clear, I never had sex with anyone, just felt the need to). I said that I either had no crush, or my crushes weren't "serious". Sometimes I've had fantasies about dating certain people without sexual intercourse. However, these fantasies would come and go rapidly and I wasn't really invested in them in the first place. I was a teenager at that time, so I'm pretty sure that my hormones were playing with me. I don't know if what I've experienced could be considered romantic love or not, but I'm certain it was close, and I can't say that I dislike the idea of dating someone, so I doubt I'm aromatic.It sounds like you need a vibrating dildo to condition your body for sexual intercourse. Can you get one where you live?
And if your father won't slice and dice you for being an independent person tell him that he married who he wanted to and that you will do the same thing when you get good and damn ready. Chances are he will be dead and long gone and you will be stuck with the consequences of the ill-suited decisions he forced you into making. In other words, tell him to keep his trap shut about your love life. It's yours, not his.
