So, wait... she already moved to her dad's? Or are you still living together?
If it's the former, why haven't you changed the locks yet? I mean, she can only "move back in" if she has access, right? Deny her that access.
Also, you should've lawyered up the moment you decided to go through with a divorce. While trying to be a nice guy is noble, you will fuck yourself over if you don't have quality legal assistance, especially if child custody is involved. Getting a lawyer doesn't mean escalating the conflict, but rather ensuring your rights aren't trampled on. This is divorce 101.
If it's the former, why haven't you changed the locks yet? I mean, she can only "move back in" if she has access, right? Deny her that access.
Also, you should've lawyered up the moment you decided to go through with a divorce. While trying to be a nice guy is noble, you will fuck yourself over if you don't have quality legal assistance, especially if child custody is involved. Getting a lawyer doesn't mean escalating the conflict, but rather ensuring your rights aren't trampled on. This is divorce 101.
