RE: Do you start people at ten, or do they need to earn it?
November 24, 2017 at 3:05 pm
(This post was last modified: November 24, 2017 at 3:08 pm by J a c k.)
(November 24, 2017 at 2:50 pm)Industrial Lad Wrote: Well I often lack the confidence to initiate things. So often others have to introduce themselves. Then I'm like "OMG this cool person wants to be my friend!" Once that happens they are pretty high up on the scale. It's not that I'm unfriendly, I guess that stuff is awkward for me and I fear rejection.
Hanneh! Build that confidence, yo. You’re pretty darn cool.

(November 24, 2017 at 3:00 pm)Whateverist Wrote:(November 24, 2017 at 2:13 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I always start at 10. Seriously, if you're not a jerk, I will like you. And even if you are a jerk, it would take doing/saying something really crappy for me to actively dislike you.
....and then if you apologize or start being nice, you're a ten again.
Don't know why, just always been like this.
(November 24, 2017 at 2:16 pm)J a c k Wrote: Me too! I think I’m irreversibly disappointed, until they say sorry. Then boom! I like them again.
You two would be awesome as gf's. ("I swear, that will be the last time!") I tend to start people high, maybe an 8. So there is room to improve but lots more room to drop. Also, I'm less quick to forgive. Don't anyone hold their breath waiting for my canonization when I jump off.
Lol I suck at the forgiveness thing. I’ve disliked people here before, because of whatever, and then they gave me a fuggin kudo and I’m like awwwwwww! Let’s cuddle.
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