(November 24, 2017 at 2:50 pm)Industrial Lad Wrote: Well I often lack the confidence to initiate things. So often others have to introduce themselves. Then I'm like "OMG this cool person wants to be my friend!" Once that happens they are pretty high up on the scale. It's not that I'm unfriendly, I guess that stuff is awkward for me and I fear rejection.
I think I'm pretty much the same. People have described as 'aloof' what is really just shyness.
As a result I have a lot of difficulty making new friends IRL. But to answer the question, I usually assume a rando is a 5 unless they show some reason to change it. It's not like I actually assign number to people, though.
