I think " Would you have liked to be aborted ?" is kind of irrelevant. I'm me 37 years after the day I was born. Not a fetus. I turned out halfway decent, but in the year 1980 no one had any way to know that would be the result. At 13 weeks I couldn't think a conscious thought. It would have been entirely possible for me to turn out to be a dangerous criminal as far as anyone could predict.
A fetus in the womb is not the same thing as your 50 year old uncle. It's not equivalent. This kind of thinking comes from the unjustified belief that there's a bearded guy in space planning everything that knows exactly what will happen. If he's there and I'm %99.99 sure he isn't, he has no sense of justice or fairness, as suffering is not close to being measured out according to people's deeds, and he's not good at planning things.
A fetus in the womb is not the same thing as your 50 year old uncle. It's not equivalent. This kind of thinking comes from the unjustified belief that there's a bearded guy in space planning everything that knows exactly what will happen. If he's there and I'm %99.99 sure he isn't, he has no sense of justice or fairness, as suffering is not close to being measured out according to people's deeds, and he's not good at planning things.