Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Amarok]

No but if a women says she is uncomfortable and shows clear non verbal signs she's not interested in fucking . But a man continues to pressure for sex and aggressively touches after said discomfort is expressed . That does not require a telepath .

Unless someone told me they wanted to stop or they weren't enjoying the sex... I'd have no clue that a woman wasn't enjoying the sex. I'd just assume they were. Obviously women usually moan in pleasure when they're enjoying sex but I'd probably be too focused on the sex to notice if that was missing. As far as I'm concerned "I'm not enjoying this" or "stop" are what you say if you're not enjoying something or want them to stop. Indeed... no telepathy required. But some of us are too socially awkward to speak social awkwardness-ese. But even if you're not enjoying something or feel uncomfortable that doesn't necessarily mean you want the person to stop. "Stop" definitely does mean you want the person to stop. The word "stop" would be what I would be listening out for if someone wants me to stop something. That's kind of the point of the word.

If someone is autistic then it should be known beforehand so a greater emphasis on boundaries can be applied.And as i said it was not just him awkward.

I agree with this. Although the problem is people aren't always diagnosed until later.

But you should none the less stop . I can't say it more then that . While it's true autistics are not always diagnosed. By the time your sexual active your social awkwardness something you are likely more then aware of .

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That sounds disturbingly close to  "if you didn't want to get raped you shouldn't dress like a slut "

Nope. Definitely not the same shit. Not even close.

Really how so ?

People who use that argument often frame it in the idea of personal responsibility . "along with why didn't you close your legs" or "Or why didn't you leave the bathroom if he was groping you "