Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Amarok]

Tiz, I’m not “blaming” anyone. There are situations where bad sex happens and we don’t actually have to blame anyone. I’m simply saying she had outs, which is more than actual assault victims can say. (This girl didn’t even call it assault, so this is not a condemnation against her).

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Don’t compare my argument to people who blame actual rape victims because of their clothes. That’s a disgusting, histrionic non-parallel. Piss off with that nonsense. You’re a man talking to actual abuse sufferers and you pose like some defender of women. At this point, you’re virtue signaling while putting us in league with those who shame us most. No.

And i'm saying this seems like more then just bad sex . And she should not have needed "outs" . He should have gotten it into his thick head that she was not interested in fucking him . And whether she calls it sexual assault is neither her nor there .

Why should i not compare it if that's how it sounds to me? . It's only both if the argument is false. If so then will withdraw it . Otherwise it's comparing two truly vile points. It's only nonsense if it's wrong. Yup i'm a man does my gender factor in or are you demanding i "stay in my own lane " And i'm sorry for your abuse but that does not invalidate what i have said . Nope i am a ally of women but they don't need my defense. I would not have stayed on this thread this long if i were not. Nope i'm pointing out an argument that sounded disturbingly like the kind of arguments they make . Whether you intended it to mean that i tend to think not . Whether you believe it i think so even less so .