Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[henryp]

Well, no. The only penetration that happened, other than the weird mouth fingers thing, which she allowed, was a blow job that she willingly gave. He didn’t just put anything anywhere. Yeah, he’s a bad lay and an inconsiderate ass by the account, but he’s not just sticking his dick in things without permission. He’s trying to get permission in a gross way, but still.

It sounded like he was jamming his fingers in her mouth, and then trying to finger her repeatedly.  Not like once, resistance, my bad lets do something else.  

It also seemed like he was trying to get permission by taking advantage of her being a non-assertive person, because he thinks she'll eventually cave.  Not that she'll start wanting to do it, but that she'll relent due to her personality type.  

It read similar to an agressive pan handler.  Where you give them a dollar to make them go away.  Except in this case it was a blowjob.  The dynamic in the interaction doesn't seem correct.

I don't know the solution, but I think the 'You dumb bitch, just say no and leave!" isn't the answer either, because that's just not how everyone is wired.