Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist

[Edwardo Piet]

Fuck, Tiz. CONTEXT.

I said "grabbing someone's tit isn't something you do to initiate sex."

Khem said, "but the claw apparently is."

I pointed out how it wasn't the initiating move in this scenario. I didn't say "hey, man. Totes cool to ram your fingers down someone's mouth." I just pointed out the obvious difference between starting off there and it being a failed move after you've already got down, so to speak. That doesn't mean it was a smooth, smart move. And, just to be utterly clear, if she said "I don't like you putting your fingers in my mouth" after the first time he did it, her testimony suggests he would have stopped doing it. It would have been a one time fuck up instead of a repeated violation, assuming we've got the facts right.

I mean... during sex if you do something and the person doesn't like it.... and they don't say that they don't like it. And you suck at reading body language and tone of voice... then how the hell else are you supposed to tell?

The guy isn't deaf. If you're having sex and you're not into having someone's fingers in your mouth... the first stop is to say "Don't put your fingers in my life. I don't like it."

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@everyone defending this dude, will you have the same attitude if this happened to your daughter?

Would people take a more biased attitude from a more biased perspective? Yes.