Depends on the person. As they say, some people lead with their heart and others lead with their head. I'm pretty left brained and I'm not really into the whole "think positive" mentality. I'd rather just think realistically (aka, with my head).
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
