The observation wasn't meant to state anything. Just interesting that most ppl living together state a desire to get married at some point. Of course that proves nothing.
How about this angle:
You say you find the idea of commitment ok when factoring in children. Courtship; love; mating is anatural process designed almost solely for the purpose of reproducing wouldn't you agree? That those lead naturally to commitment, follows our programming to build a base to raise children. The family unit suvives on this commitment and is a completely natural function. The idea of living together is anti nature. You think you can re-invent the wheel. Hold off from the natural process and for what?
An integral part of love is trust. What I believe you're really saying is that you will never trust anyone. That sounds very sad to me. That's what hurt people do. The limit themselves. They can't be open to love because they have a reflex inside brought about by pain caused by a breaking of trust.
Again you keep banging on that commitment is only there because it's common. It's common for a reason... that reason being because it's the perfect natural step. Why would society have developed to impose on itself something anti human? It doesn't make any sense.
I see living together as self abuse. It's modern for the sake of it reasoning with no common sense backing.
'Let's put our hand in the fire' because it's different to what people have done in the past'. Different is always good, despite the complete idiocy of it.
How about this angle:
You say you find the idea of commitment ok when factoring in children. Courtship; love; mating is anatural process designed almost solely for the purpose of reproducing wouldn't you agree? That those lead naturally to commitment, follows our programming to build a base to raise children. The family unit suvives on this commitment and is a completely natural function. The idea of living together is anti nature. You think you can re-invent the wheel. Hold off from the natural process and for what?
An integral part of love is trust. What I believe you're really saying is that you will never trust anyone. That sounds very sad to me. That's what hurt people do. The limit themselves. They can't be open to love because they have a reflex inside brought about by pain caused by a breaking of trust.
Again you keep banging on that commitment is only there because it's common. It's common for a reason... that reason being because it's the perfect natural step. Why would society have developed to impose on itself something anti human? It doesn't make any sense.
I see living together as self abuse. It's modern for the sake of it reasoning with no common sense backing.
'Let's put our hand in the fire' because it's different to what people have done in the past'. Different is always good, despite the complete idiocy of it.
