(March 28, 2018 at 4:16 pm)MysticKnight Wrote: I liked how she looked true. But I liked her personality as well.
I get that dude, but what are you going to do? It may not feel good no, but EVERYONE gets rejected. I was your age myself. I've been rejected plenty of times. Don't dwell on it, it isn't worth it. Time and maturity, but most importantly, working on yourself is far more important than trying to impress others. Look MK, I know I blaspheme your religion, but this is a completely different subject here. I HAVE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE AT WITH GIRLS, trust me, don't dwell on it, move on. You will get rejected more times before you find one that says yes.
I'd prefer a quick no, than a girl to be polite to me, go on several dates, only to discover she didn't want to hurt me. I hate that and I have had that happen. It is a waste of time.
The other thing is even if one says yes, you should NEVER go into a relationship expecting a utopia forever. Humans are entitled to change their minds over time. I still am friends with my X wife and very happy for what she went on to do without me. What mattered to me was that I met her and had time with her, but she also had a right to leave me too because she was not happy.
If you just relax and stop chasing fantasy, focus on you, eventually it will happen. But you will scare women away if you come across as too aggressive, too romantic too quickly, or a stalker. Being yourself has to be about YOU, not them. Accept you first don't force any relationship, even with mere friends.
