(March 28, 2018 at 6:02 pm)Hammy Wrote:(March 28, 2018 at 5:54 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: Next time you might try asking a group. There's less pressure on you and the group.
Asking out a group of girls? Wouldn't that be even more awkward?
Single or group, I sucked at asking a female out in both.
My success came when I wasn't looking for it. Even with just making new friends outside of dating. If you go out trying too hard to impress, people see through you. If you simply be yourself, and relax, you wont be stressed. Don't go into a social situation with expectations, just go and see what happens. Sometimes you connect, sometimes you don't.
If you go into it with a script of how it should go, you increase your anxiety. If you just go and have fun, people see that.
