(March 28, 2018 at 8:47 pm)I Brian37 Wrote:(March 28, 2018 at 8:32 pm)*Deidre* Wrote: Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You'll meet a girl someday who won't be...''busy.''
It's not a matter of "venturing" as much as it is not creeping out the one you are considering. Believe me, looking back at it now, I understand why females reacted the way they did. I came on too fast.
It is not about trying or not trying. It really amounts to being yourself. And you are far more likely to make a connection when not looking for it than if you are trying to force a script someone sold you.
I really think MK just needs to rid his body of his hormones, stop worrying about trying to create a romance movie and just live his life for himself.
It is when you stop caring what others want and stop trying to impress people, that is when others notice you.
My X wife pursued me. I wasn't even looking to date her when I met her. I literally saw her as a mere friend when I first met her.
I'd say that the "venture" part is only valid when you have no expectations and simply go with the flow.
I actually believe in friendships turning into more if they’re meant to be. I got married last year and my husband was once “just a friend.”
Nothing ventured, nothing gained doesn’t necessarily mean that one’s efforts are for nothing if the end result didn’t happen. In every venture, we learn something.
