Introduction

[ghostlighter]

Well EvF, I think we all hate the guessing game. All I can do is try to be as honest with you as I can about how I feel about you, since I know how you feel about it. I am delighted to have any intelligent conversation. And if you're a thinker, rest assured I probably like you even if we are vastly different in other aspects. But if this is something that troubles you, let me offer you some advice. Have you ever tried meditation? Meditation is a great tool for us thinkers, as we tend to think too much, maybe even thinking ourselves into circles and concern ourselves greatly with what is essentially not our problem. Meditation helps the mind to let go and ACCEPT things (especially things we cannot change.) Now I know that meditation is a rather "religious" thing and you are probably a pretty secular guy. But let me tell you, meditation is about CLEARING the mind not filling it up with more beliefs. In a way meditation is a practice of non-belief, so give it a try.