(September 1, 2018 at 5:10 pm)PRJA93 Wrote:(September 1, 2018 at 4:46 pm)possibletarian Wrote: Really? She's not a potential victim, what happened there was clear for all to see it's always inappropriate to hold a woman in such away that your hand is cupping under her breast, unless you have express permission.
Whether or not there was any intent to actually touch her breast is a different matter. It could very easily have been avoided by putting his arm around her shoulder, which is universally considered more friendly and appropriate. How the woman feels is very important, but it does not make an act appropriate or not.
I also agree that it looks inappropriate. But it’s not your place to tell a woman she’s a victim or not a victim. That’s her decision and her experience.
Let me repeat so you can get it through your head, this situation seems very wrong to me, from my point of view. But that’s all I can comment on is my point of view.
So like I said, I will reserve a final answer judgement on this particular situation until Grande speaks on it herself, as the woman who was actually going through this.
Personally I would never touch a woman like this unless I knew for sure she was comfortable with it. And even then I wouldn’t hold a woman like that on national television.
Where did you get this victim rule ? I've never heard anything as silly.
Either it was inappropriate, or it was not. It is inappropriate to hold a women you clearly don't know in such a way that you fingers are constantly rubbing against her breast as she moves away from you, Whether or not it's on national TV or not is irrelevant.
'Those who ask a lot of questions may seem stupid, but those who don't ask questions stay stupid'
