RE: The Philippines. What would you do?
October 29, 2019 at 4:13 pm
(This post was last modified: October 29, 2019 at 4:15 pm by EgoDeath.)
(October 29, 2019 at 6:13 am)Little lunch Wrote: Careful EgoDeath, you're starting to sound like your Life coach. :-)
I don't make enough money to pay for a life coach.... YET. DUN DUN DUN.....
But, in all seriousness, I think there are a couple of red flags popping up that he should be taking note of. But hey, it's not my relationship. Maybe I'm misunderstanding the dynamic between them.
(October 29, 2019 at 7:33 am)paulpablo Wrote: No she said she believed I wouldn't cheat on her after a while of taking about it. Me not going is my choice, based on I think I'll have a better time.
Like I said, I have no dog in this fight. Just tryin' to help you out. You know the relationship far better than I, obviously. I'm just telling you that I don't think talk of concerns about cheating should be coming up that early on. They really shouldn't be coming up at all, but I suppose it's natural to worry about it. It's just strange to me that she even brought up because you planned to go on a trip that was previously paid for. If she's mentioned it this early because of a three week vacation, chances are it's going to come up again and again. However, I suppose it's good that she feels comfortable expressing herself to you, but if she already doesn't trust you, why are you two together? You shouldn't have even had to talk her down in the first place.
Then again, life is messy. As are the relationships we have within life. So, do you man.
If you're frightened of dying, and you're holding on, you'll see devils tearing your life away. But if you've made your peace, then the devils are really angels, freeing you from the Earth.
