(December 15, 2019 at 10:07 pm)onlinebiker Wrote:(December 14, 2019 at 11:12 pm)onlinebiker Wrote: I used to be a bouncer in a country/western bar that was owned by a couple in our neighborhood that I went to school with.
During deer hunting season they used to bring in male strippers for the "Whitetail Widows."
Just me, 8 or 9 security guys, a half dozen male strippers, and 400 or so horny women. I would get groped 50 times or more just walking across the bar.
I felt "so violated".
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I miss that place.....
(December 15, 2019 at 9:27 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: I have been seeing some things online lately about not making kids hug relatives, etc. at family gatherings. This is especially a thing during the holidays. Kids should have the right to do so organically and not it be something expected of them. It's a setup for later when people touch without prompting. We have to do a better job of letting kids know that they have the right to decline hugs and kisses from family that may be people they only see once or twice a year. It sets a really bad precedence and takes all power away when it comes to control over their own bodies.So howcome - when women grope a guy (and seriously - I have had it happen) it's responded to with a wink and a smile?
The line regarding unwelcome touching is often blurry from the start. It's confusing and difficult to navigate.
Never mind that we like it.....
Aren't we guys victims??
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Twisted, ain' t it?
Not all guys want to be groped. I am sure there are women who like to be groped. At it's most basic of it is that no one has the right to touch someone without their consent.
How one person reacts to being touched without consent has nothing to do with the overall fact that no one should be touching other people without their consent.
I'm your huckleberry.
