RE: Do atheists believe in the existence of friendship?
May 17, 2023 at 4:24 pm
(This post was last modified: May 17, 2023 at 4:30 pm by Simon Moon.)
(May 17, 2023 at 9:29 am)KerimF Wrote: First, thank you all for taking the trouble to answer my first question by a big YES, though each of you did it by using his artistic talent
Now, it is time for the second question
If two persons stand before you, please let me know how you could be sure that friendship exists in them or not. Thank you.
Naturally, the third question will be based on how each of you will answer this second one
Friendship is the name we put on a series of behaviors and feelings demonstrated by humans toward each. And lack of other behaviors that one associates with not being friends.
Of course friendship exists, because we can see people demonstrating those behaviors toward each other.
If two people are standing before me, and they are demonstrating most or all of the behaviors we associate with friendship, are avoiding the behaviors we associate with not being friends, that is pretty good evidence that they are friends.
For example, if I see them help each other out, go to movies or concerts together, wish each other the best in life, become sad for each other if they are going through tough times, compliment each other, if one chooses the other to be her bridesmaid or best man at their wedding, etc, etc, etc, since that all is part of some of the collected behaviors we associate with friendship, as a third person observing them, I can be pretty sure they are friends.
Could I be wrong? Sure.
But the evidence is pretty compelling they are friends.
And yes, love, friendship, empathy, sympathy, dislike, etc, are all a result of brain function, and brain chemicals.
You'd believe if you just opened your heart" is a terrible argument for religion. It's basically saying, "If you bias yourself enough, you can convince yourself that this is true." If religion were true, people wouldn't need faith to believe it -- it would be supported by good evidence.