What (in your society) is a 'real man'?

[GrandizerII]

Societally, there appear to be different ways to be considered a "real man" if you're a man.

Some examples:

• you work your ass off for your family who completely rely on you financially
  
• you're emotionally supportive to your woman
  
• you're a good father to your kids
  
• you're abusive to your woman when she "misbehaves"
  
• you're a shit father who acts like you treat your kids the way you do out of some weird notion of fatherly "love"
  
• you're the head of a company
  
• you're single, but fuck a lot of women on a regular basis (or have that reputation at least)
  

So many different ways. Not just one way. Basically, be "clearly" male and achieve some of many milestones recognized by society as being an "adult" (and be "outstanding" in what you do).