What (in your society) is a 'real man'?

[FrustratedFool]

Fair enough. So the ideals for man and woman are different.

Men are primarily protectors, women primarily nuturers, in your view.

So a man who was far more a nuturer than a protector wouldnt be a real man, yes?

Your assumption and mindset are that there is an either or dynamic going on, which is incorrect. You can be a male with 100% nurturer as a trait and that has zero bearing on me identifying them as a “real man”. As I stated nurturer was not part of my definition of “real man”. you can be both a nurturer and a protector but they are not the same thing.

But I can't be a zero protector and 100% nurturer and be a real man, yes? But I could be that and be a real woman.