(March 9, 2012 at 5:46 pm)aleialoura Wrote: I am a huge fan of tantric sex. My ex and I tried it together, and once we discovered it's awesomeness, we couldn't stop.
You must spend your days with a huge smile on your face and a spring in your step. Maybe you can help me with a problem. I've been practising for 40 days (as I say mainly on my own for now) and what I find is that I can never go beyond a certain phase. It's very good, but it never (except once) spills over into an actual full orgasm. I'm doing this without touching, just lying down and breathing. Either there's something I'm not doing, or not doing right, or, I have some kind of "block" as they say. I would have thought 40 days would be more than enough time to get it right. What do you think?
And how long did it take you to get there?