Secularization and the destruction of marriage

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I think that secularization does not bring the destruction of family values.
What brings the destruction of family values is discarding them as *old fashioned* or *relativist* and not recognizing their importance for the survival of society. Secularism simply states that religion is a personal matter. Nothing more. Nothing less. And it it only there where it has an effect. It does not tell you to bring about illegitimate children, it does not tell you to divorce your husband/wife at the first sign of trouble within marriage, it does not tell you to allow your daughter to sleep around with guys, nor does it tell you not to marry, instead lead a life of unlawful cohabitation which has no recognition before the state, nor the people.