The simple solution is this: make church weddings completely irrelevant to the state, and anything performed by the state to be considered a "civil union" of some sort across the board. Equal rights for all. That way the church doesn't have to marry anyone they don't want - straight or gay. Civil union applications take care of automatic inheritance rights.
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