There is a big difference between...

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which is why i say that one must be absolutly secure before they have children.

No that's very wrong Sae. No one can ever know. For most people they never ever will be secure enough to have children. They do however have every reason to have children if they will love that child.

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It is only perverse to be able to live a better life for the sake of your family... and to impatiently create a family at your status instead.

You speak like love doesn't ever come into it.