RE: Science proves that you should un-friend your ex on Facebook
September 21, 2012 at 7:19 pm
(This post was last modified: September 21, 2012 at 7:20 pm by Reforged.)
(September 21, 2012 at 6:49 pm)Tino Wrote: The science says yes, at least one study did. I can just barely relate to this since I haven't had an ex since the invention of FB, and I don't have a personal FB account. I do have a FB account for my business, and I agree it's better to un-friend an employee when they leave, for whatever reason. How do you handle it and how does it work out for you?
http://io9.com/5944991/science-proves-th...n-facebook
My ex was about as interesting as listening to a dalek list its favourite wall paper samples in alphabetical order.
Unfriending her was the first thing I did when I broke up with her. I had already tolerated three years of her completely dull, colourless, unoriginal presence. She would often berate me to improve her own self-esteem.
From her I learnt that being with someone who you don't connect with is far worse than being alone. At least when you're alone you're free to be you. When you're with someone who criticizes your every word and act its like being held hostage. A partner should be someone who completes you as opposed to diminishing you.
"That is not dead which can eternal lie and with strange aeons even death may die."
- Abdul Alhazred.
- Abdul Alhazred.